I don't think that any jerking movements of missile seeker is realistic. As far as I know (not a radar specialist!), when presented with two- target problem, monopulse solution will tend to point somewhere between, not directly at one of them.
In addition to, because seeker antenna angular rate is (gross simplification incoming) feed to autopilot as acceleration command, some kind of smoothing filter is added, so that noisy and erratic antenna movement doesn't translate into noisy and erratic missile trajectory - or at least, not as noisy and erratic.
I think that SAHR would be even worse. ARH can use a little bit more precise data, combining target position from aircraft (quite precise if radar is in STT), and own seeker data, creating better target state estimation (at least, in theory). Not implemented in DCS, as we know.
Still, as far as i know, monopulse have no ability to distinguish between multiple targets in beam, if these targets somehow are not filtered out earlier based on doppler or range gate. As far as I know, only AESA radars have such theoretical ability, and I'm not even sure if it is implemented on military radars.